Oh My

Well I haven't written since I set up this blog. (Shame on me.) I use to blog just about every day on MySpace but haven't been blogging there either. I actually started a written journal back in October instead of blogging online. I'm back to myself for the time being and plan to start blogging again regular.

To catch you up back in October my husband sent me a text message telling me he wanted a divorce. (We had only been married 3 months.) This was such a shock to me that I just didn't know what to do or think. I was very embarassed about all that was going on. He wouldn't take my calls or return my calls. Then the weekend of Thanksgiving he moved his other woman in. Thank goodness I had gone that Wednesday and filed for divorce. He was served December 8th and he's called twice ... says he is going to counter me on adultry because my son's father comes to my house to pick my son up. Go figure. I'm not worried about anything because I know I haven't done anything wrong at all. I am nervous about having to go to court because I do not want to face him after what all he put me through and I'm not sure how it will affect me. I've been in counseling since the end of November or the first of December and that has helped me a lot. My son is also in counseling too but I don't think it is helping him very much, he is still having a hard time with all of this.

Anyways I've been staying busy with my knitting in my free time. :) I gots lots of knitting done for Christmas. I was scared that I was going to get a burn out but so far I'm still knitting maybe not like I was in November and December but just a little slower. I joined several knitting groups from Yahoo and so far I've kept up with two of them. :) I guess you can say that one group did a football for January but I had already knitted a football for a Christmas gift for my son so I didn't knit the football. Guess I need to go back and do that one and he will have 2 ... maybe I can do it in orange instead of brown so he will have one in the Clemson color. I've also started back working out (walking on the treadmill) and found me a church that I really like. I've been two Sundays now and one Wednesday but I feel deep down that I'm in the right place.

I went to the YMCA last night and I can really tell that I had skipped a few days the week before. When I started I walked Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and Friday then last week I only walked on Tuesday. So far I'm on track this week :).